I should’ve written this post last year; but I didn’t. Since it’s happening again in 2017, I decided to write about it. I’m not referring to anyone but if the shoes fits, wear it. If you don’t know what that means then watch more movies😂or just Google it. So where do I start? I don’t know if I’m way too nice or just letting people use me to their advantage for what they want. I know when people want to; but I let it happen anyway because I feel like I’m helping out. And once they get what they want, they’re gone. Typical human nature😒 I barely ask for help from anyone the way people do from me; if anyone wants to contradict me, lay down your argument; and I will. I never lose😀 I love arguments and I never back out no matter what.
I should really take this seriously because I’m getting so tired of it😅 As I was saying, if you need help from most people, they’ll charge you. Even bloggers; that’s how most of them make money, among other means; I’ve seen it. I can charge for my expertise or whatever as well; but I don’t (on second thought…hold that thought), because I’m like “God gave me, so why not give?” But when they get what they want and they disappear or when I finally ask for help which probably has a 10% chance of happening, and I don’t get it in return, it’s really selfish, stupid, and annoying. The worse is picking a fight with me after getting what you want. I mean I know the tricks; I just don’t say it because it’ll end in denial.
So, technically, in order to avoid getting used and letting them feel like they’re way smarter than me, and I don’t know what they’re doing it, I’ll either say “NO” which is my favourite word, or charge for my work which is a good idea. I don’t have a problem helping anyone; I feel happy doing it; but, I have a problem with feeling and getting used. So this is my rule. You either dance to the tune, or walk out; I’m nice, but you don’t want to get on my bad side at all. No one enjoys getting used; and I’m fed up with fake friendships just for what they want.
I stay up really late looking for how I’ll succeed in things and reading so many articles because that’s my quiet time; while they sleep soundly. When I succeed, they want the short way in; and they never helped out or anything. So from now, my rule stands for basically anyone; whether it’s for blogging or not. I have other things to do with my time wasted. I probably typed this with a lot of anger but I’m cool now. Literally cool, like cold; freezing😅
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